Real Rest

“Real rest is more than stopping, more than taking a break.  It is a calmness, a stillness, of body, mind and soul.”
Loren Thornburg

If you’re like me rest is not something that comes naturally.  I don’t just mean vegging out in front of the TV or taking a nap although it could include those things.  I mean a real rest that brings a refreshing of mind, body and soul.  A space where you can really be still and leave off anything and let go of everything.  Productivity, busyness, and activity are so highly valued that we often miss what we need most.  Our bodies were designed for rest whether we like it or not.  I am slowly coming to see this countercultural truth.  The more I invite real rests in my life the more I find energy and life for the activities.  It’s not easy to be quiet in a loud and busy world, to hear the thoughts that come to mind in the silences and to endure through the restlessness that says you should do more.  Yet, it’s always worth it.  Either way you and I were made for rest.  It’s part of your design...so enter into who you are and find real rest.  

“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden and overburdened, and I will cause you to rest. [I will ease and relieve and refresh your souls.] Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me, for I am gentle (meek) and humble (lowly) in heart, and you will find rest (relief and ease and refreshment and recreation and blessed quiet) for your souls.”
Matthew 11:28-29 Amplified

Not only is this counter cultural now, but it would have been very different for the disciples as well.  A yoke is a harness that connects animals to a plow.  Often an older, more experienced animal led a younger animal so that the term also came to mean that of a student and teacher.  So when Jesus shared this invitation with His disciples they would have understood it as looking completely different than being the student of any other rabbi.  What He was saying was, “...I’ll show you how to take a real rest.  Walk with Me and work with Me-watch how I do it.  Learn the unforced rhythms of grace…” (The Message).  He offers this same invitation to you, “to ease, relieve and refresh your souls” to show you the “unforced rhythms of grace.”  Rest comes from two root words.  One means to cease and the other means in between or among.   It means to cease from labor to recover and collect strength and to be of calm and patient expectation.  Not because there isn’t anything else to do but in between or among all the busyness to cease and stop to rest.  So let go of all that keeps you from resting and enter His real rest.  

Free to Roam

“Boundaries are the space in which one can be free.”

Loren Thornburg

I enjoy getting away to new places when I can.  The thing about places that are new is that you don’t always know what is safe.  As I ventured off in a new space I was thankful for the fences that marked that which I was free to roam.  Now for some of us this is very limiting and at times I would have to agree.  Yet in this moment I came to appreciate the fences seeing them not as that which was keeping me from seeing more, but that which was freeing me to enjoy the space I was given.  I can’t say that I always feel this way and never question the amount of space that I am given to be free.  I wrestle with the limits of my health, the boundaries that healthy relationships call for, the ways I feel fenced in by my weaknesses and failures , and on and on.   What if instead of limits we saw freedom?  What if instead of boundaries we saw safety?  What if we saw our fences for what they give us instead of what they are keeping us from?  Enjoy the space you’ve been given even if the fences aren’t where you wish they would be.  

“The Lord is the portion of my inheritance and my cup;  You support my lot.  The lines have fallen to me in pleasant places; Indeed, my heritage is beautiful to me.”

Psalm 16:5-6 NASB

When the Lord is in it, the lines are always pleasant.  He is a god of giving, not of taking away.  Yet, sometimes we can miss that if we don’t see the bigger picture of what He is doing.  Recently I have felt the weight of what seems like things being taken away, not realizing that what God is doing is making room for more.  It isn’t that He wants to take away your fun, your desires, or the things you enjoy, but He wants to make more room in your heart for you to really experience true joy.  He is a god of purpose and of great plans for you.  Wherever your lines and boundaries have fallen they are pleasant when He is in them.  Paul found freedom in chains.  He still saw his lines had fallen in pleasant places.  He is more than enough freedom for any space, no matter how small it seems.  Find freedom in the space He has given you.  

Heart of the Matter

“The heart of the matter is a matter of the heart.”
Loren Thornburg

The ‘heart of the matter’ is a saying we use to refer to the core of something.  Often times we use it to refer to that which is at the root of an issue or causing the problem.  As the heart of a human is the most vital organ, so the heart of the matter is the most important part.   What I am finding is the ‘heart of the matter’ for most of my problems is in fact my heart.  Only, I don’t mean in the physical functioning of propelling blood through the body.  Instead I am talking about the other definition of heart, the inmost or most central part.  It is my innermost being, the emotional component.  This is the real ‘heart of the matter.‘  So often we spend so much time taking care of the outside that we forget that the real ‘heart of the matter’ is what is going on in the inside.   The truth is real change happens from the inside out.  The ‘heart of the matter’ of the kid acting out is not that he can’t get his act together, but that he’s hurting; the mom yelling at her kids is hurting, the driver with road rage is hurting.  We all have places that are begging us to see...our hearts are the ‘heart of the matter.’

“Speak to the heart of Jerusalem, and cry unto her, that her time of suffering is accomplished, that her iniquity is pardoned; for she hath received of Jehovah's hand double for all her sins.”

Isaiah 40:2 Darby Bible Translation

Heart is referred to over 500 times in the bible and not in reference to the organ, but to describe the seat of emotions, desires, appetites, emotions, courage, mind, determination, reflection, and soul.  God is about our hearts and loves to speak to them.  After many chapters of judgment and conviction God brings a word of comfort meant to minister to the hearts. This is a reflection of Himself.  He is about your heart.  Whatever the situation it seems the ‘heart of the matter’ for God is your heart.  So if you’re wondering what God is doing in the midst of your situation it probably has to do with the hearts of those involved.  You can trust that He has your heart in mind.  

What You Can’t See

“What you can’t see is there is hope.  What you can’t see is there is more.  What you can’t see is there is victory to come.  When what you see seems hopeless, remember that there is more that you can’t see.”

Loren Thornburg

Easter is the celebration of the resurrection.  To resurrect is to raise from the dead, restore to life, revive, regenerate, revitalize, breathe new life into, bring back to life, reinvigorate, rejuvenate.  We all have places in our hearts and lives that we need and desire this resurrection.  What I am reminded of this year in the story of the resurrection is what no one could see.  While everyone was mourning Christ was given new life.  I’m not saying there shouldn’t be mourning in the face of tragedy.  What I am saying is there was more going on than what they could see.  They couldn’t see behind the tombstone.  Sometimes healing and restoration are happening in ways we can’t see and in places we don’t know.  So while you walk through places where all you can see is defeat and hopelessness remember that there is more going on that you can’t see.  There is so much more going on beyond the things we see.  It takes faith, it takes hope, it takes trust to believe in what you can’t see.

“Now the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ Jesus, will personally restore, establish, strengthen, and support you after you have suffered a little.”

1 Peter 5:10 HCSB

God is a god of resurrecting.  He loves bringing life into things that were once dead.  We see it all throughout the Bible, story after story of what was once dead, now made alive.  He has a habit of personally restoring places of loss and suffering.  He has a way of changing the unchangeable, restoring the broken beyond repair and bringing hope to the utterly hopeless.  He knows you and He knows how to personally and intimately bring you to the full life He created you to live.  You only have to let Him and invite Him into those places.  It may seem impossible that things could ever change for us.  Yet, this is the God of all grace who raised Jesus from the dead.  Just as He was at work behind Jesus’ tombstone, so He is at work behind the tombstones of our own lives raising death to life in ways you can’t see.  He loves to resurrect.  So though all you see now is suffering, trust Him for what You can’t see happening behind the tombstones of your life.  He is at work to personally restore, establish, strengthen, and support you.